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Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children

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Twitter user, Priscilla shared a sad experience with her parents whom have disowned all their children after a heated argument.
Scilla narrated how her mum tried to reconnect her with a boyfriend she despised a lot, which led to the argument.

Now, @scilla_xx and her siblings have created a GoFundMe page to raise funds so that they’ll move out of their home.

Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children

Read the story. It’s a long one, so grab a cup of coffee.

There was this dude I used to talk to. One day I was super drunk and this nigga had sex with me. Mind you I was unconscious, and had no memory of what happened the night before. The next day he told me we had sex and I was wondering why he’d have sex with a drunk unconscious girl. That’s rape. So after that day I cut him off. My parents on the other hand liked this guy and wondered why we stopped hanging out so I told them he was abusive. The very first time this guy yelled at me I had to hold myself in the fetus position to protect myself. That was the same day the rape happened. This man is screaming and hitting things. Anyhoo. I get home, confided in my siblings and they stood by me the whole time but I had no intention of ever telling my parents this guy raped me.
Everytime they asked about him I told them he was abusive and he’s scary cos I feel he’s gonna hit me. And my dad LITERALLY said to me “oh that’s bad, he has anger issues and that’s terrible.”

A little back ground on the guy. His parents recently filed for a divorce in the end of last year because for about 28years of their marriage his father was abusive to all of them. He would hit his mom and his kids.” That’s all he knows, abuse. But he swore he never wanted to be like his dad. And he seemed perfect until that day. We got in a heated argument on why he’d had sex with a drunk girl and he literally turned red and turned into an animal.

So anyhooo. My parents knowing I’m scared of this dude. They know after it ended I had to go to therapy. Even though they had no clue he raped me I believe they should know that was enough for me to stay away from this man. So on Sunday I was suspecting they were still in communication so I took my mom’s phone when she was not looking. I go through it and see my own mother contacted this man and told him I was a child who didn’t know what I wanted and if he still wanted me back she and my dad were willing to come in to help….IMAGINE, IF HE STILL WANTED ME BACK??? My parents knew this man was abusive.

My parents knew this man sent me to therapy. My mother went ahead and told him I was in love with him. Someone I hadn’t spoken to in about a month.
Then in the text I see they set up a meeting to meet up at Wendy’s last Friday. So at this point I’m furious. I drop her phone back and go to my room thinking of what to do…by the time I came out she had left for work so I step outside the house to call this man to know. the details of their meeting. He was telling me my parents said I was a child who didn’t know what I want and they like him and want us together and that his anger issues could easily be worked on so it shouldnt tear us apart. At this point I’m FURIOUS. I hung up, called my siblings together and told them what was happening and they were all mad so I go confront my dad in his room. One of my sisters follow me. I went to his room and said dad I wanna talk to you about something and he said I should wait. So my sister and I were waiting. I sit down on his bed for like 4 mins while he was pressing his phone, then he drops his phone and says ok what’s the problem. So I start…

“So I had been suspecting you and this guy were in communication, and I took mom’s phone and went through it…”at this point I get emotional and couldn’t get my out words out right but I try anyway. I asked him “do you love me at all?” And he says what kind of question is that
and I asked him why was he getting in contact with this dude and why did they meet KNOWING FULLY WELL I’m scared of this guy? A guy that’s abusive at this point I’m crying…I was like you think being abusive is a flaw??? (In the text my mom said his issues was a flaw and we all got flaws anyway)…you know what my dad said? He said he’s my father and will not answer to me and I should get out of his room.

And I said I’m not going anywhere. I kept going…why are you so desperate to see your daughter with a man you don’t care what kind of man it is? Then he comes to me holding a hanger he was using to hang his clothes saying he would slap me. He said “do you want me to slap you?” And I said you can’t slap me and he said he will slap me then my brother comes in expecting to see the conversation going on smoothly but was shocked seeing my dad standing over me saying he will slap me. So my brother says “do you really wanna slap her? Your 27yo daughter is confronting you over wanting her to get back with an abuser and you want to slap her? TRY IT! I DARE YOU! Slap her! I dare you to touch her”.
And at this point I’m sitting on the floor confused and crying like why would he want to hit me? Then my dad faces my brother and said “I will slap you too” my brother took off his glasses and said “I DARE YOU TO COME AND SLAP ME” at this point my uncle and aunty come in the room with my other sister and it’s loud af and my dad and brother gets into it. And out of no where I screamed “do you know ***** raped me? DO YOU KNOW HE RAPED ME? And my dad looks at me and says “are you yelling at me? I’m your father, I gave birth to you”.

At this point I’m wondering why what was getting to him was the fact that I was yelling not the fact that I’m telling him this man raped me. Then my brother goes off saying this stupid man raped my sister and NOW that you know you’re angry that she’s raising her voice.

Meanwhile my uncle was separating my brother and my dad cos punches and hands were being thrown. The min my uncle heard rape he turned into an animal and said GIVE ME THAT MAN’S ADDRESS RIGHT NOW! And he was going off ANGRY AF! Meanwhile the next thing my father said was “I disown all 4 of you. You’re no longer my children, leave my house”.

My uncle was telling him “Sir, Priscilla said this man raped her, now we understand the level of her anger” all my dad could say was all of you leave my house NOW! Anyhoo we didn’t leave. I told him to call the cops if he wants to. My dad literally didn’t care this man raped me.
This whole fight lasted for over an hour. Then my mom texts me from work apparently my dad called her. And she says she was only trying to help get us back together and the man said he would get help blah blah and I proceeded to tell her I was ashamed of her and her husband.

Then my dad leaves the house. Anyhoo. We wake up the next day to see he took us off the WiFi and phone bill plans.

 

Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children

Before my dad left the house while he was on the phone I heard him say something like “I told her to stop wearing short things” and I GO TF OFFFFFFFFFFF!!!!! I scream in his face and I tell him idc what context he said that he should never have said that. I told him he was a terrible father. I told him I regretted that he gave birth to me and I told him I hate him and if I was to come back again to this world I’d come through any other parent besides him.

This happened on Sunday. It’s Tuesday and my parents still haven’t said a word to any of us. He keeps doing petty things to hurt us but we told him we got eachother and he can fuck off. All 4 of us intend to stay put. It’s 4 against 2. In all of this I’m most disappointed in my mother. A woman who I’m close to who knows this man she was tryna throw on me behind my back raped me and she’s staying quiet and keeping malice with me. While the heat was on we were all in my brother’s room and my dad came and said “the way you’re insulting me your father, your children will insult you like that” and we all screamed GOD FORBID BACK TO SENDER. Lmfao.

My friend was saying I should create a gofundme so my siblings and I can move out of the house. We’re all grown but we live in a huge house and we never paid bills for the most part. But idk what do y’all think?.

My cashapp is $Scillaxx just Incase y’all really want me to move out the house. Cos I’m really thinking about it. Seeing my parents make me furious.

Sunday was mad I had to book an appointment with my therapist. My appointment is in a few minutes.

Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children

This were the messages my mom sent to him. She knew I was scared of this man. She knew he’s violent, she knew i said he was abusive, she knew he’s from an abusive home. She knew I had to protect myself when he’s mad. She knew all this. I’ve never told this man I love him.

Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children

Imagine begging your daughter’s abuser to take her. Nothing in this world made me as furious as these messages.

Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children

Also this happened in the family group chat.

When my father sent that message my brother said to me “bow down? Lai se John snow” lmfaoooo.

Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children Story of how my parents went mad and disowned 4 of their children

My friends said to create a gofundme. Also my therapist adviced I leave but my siblings are coming with me. So if you wanna fund us, feel free to. Thanks. I know there are people wondering why I’m airing my “family’s dirty laundry” but right now the only family I have are my siblings and that’s all that matters. Also I literally don’t care what anyone thinks of my parents cos right now I think the worst of them. “Aren’t you working?”
I work. But I don’t think that has anything to do with not being able to move out. Who moves out in 24hours? Even people with jobs don’t. How much more 4 people at a time. The gofundme is for start up. We can sort ourselves out after a few months. So I decided to delete the gofundme. I know some want me to put it up and others don’t feel I should but I really think I shouldn’t. So I deleted it. We will sort ourselves out and if you wanna help, you can dm me for how. Thank you ❤️.

I feel like I also have to say this but my father has never been abusive physically. He’s not an abusive person. Never been violent with any of us..Matter of fact he’s super gentle and super kind. He’s just manipulative and egocentric like your average Nigerian parent.

 

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JSS1 student stoned to death by his classmate

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Emmanuel Chukwuebuka Nnanna, JSS 1 student of  Dennis Memorial Grammar School Onitsha, Anambra has been stoned to death by his classmate according to online reports. Emmanuel died on Tuesday, 12th February by a huge stone thrown at him by one of his classmate after school hours. Emmanuel collapsed and was rushed to a hospital. Sadly no hospital could handle his case after which he bled to death.

JSS1 student stoned to death by his classmate

HE DIED BECAUSE OF THE STUDENTS ENVY AND THE TEACHER’S CARELESSNESS.
THIS is Emmanuel Chukwuebuka Nnanna , a Jss 1 student at Dennis Memorial Grammar School Onitsha, A native of Oburo Ogwa in mbaitoli LGA, Imo state. He died on Tuesday 12th February 2019 by a large stone thrown to crush his head from the school dormitory window by his fellow envious student. This happened after school hours, the victim was said to finished eating in the school cafeteria, fetched water with his gallon kept the water in his corner and came outside to play football. He met two students playing football, asked if he can join them and the two boys playing the football told him to wait for they are playing turn by turn . While waiting and watching them a mischievous student carried a large stone they used to hold the dormitory door, targeted the victim from upstairs and hit the large stone on his head. The victim fell down immediately and become unconscious. The two boys playing the football carried him to the school clinic, there was no equipment to handle his case there so one of the clinic attendance carried him out the school gate and started looking for keke, he got one took him to general hospital Onitsha where no treatment was given to him. They latter took him to iyi enu hospital when he has already bled to death. While all these was going on, they did not contact his father, Kanayo hospital and other private hospitals are very close to DMGS, instead of them to take him there as his case is emergency, they rushed him to general and then far away iyi enu because it’s Anglican hospital. Just like that an innocent boy that lost his mother when he was only three years, a super intelligent boy with multiple talent died because of his fellow students envy and school management carelessness.

RIP junior blood.

As reported by Princess Omole

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Nigerian soldier dies just two months after wedding

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Nigerian soldier dies just two months after wedding

A Nigerian soldier, Ogabor George has died two months after his marriage in cross-river state. He got married on December, 2018 and died on Saturday,16th February, 2019.

Nigerian soldier dies just two months after wedding

Mike moo an intimate friend of Ogabor mourning his demise wrote this on Facebook.

“Death why?

Ogar George (Bishop Agaskpa) why leaving us so soon? Just barely two months precisely on the 21st & 22nd of December that I travelled a distance of hours to dance and celebrate with you on your traditional marriage and white wedding at Okpoma and Okuku, Yala LGA. Guy you didn’t tell me it was our last meeting oh! You were the very first person that sent me a Valentine’s message. An intimate friend’s we’ve been right from Secondary School days. Since last night that I heard of the sad news, I am yet to believe it. I have being dialling your line consecutively just to hear you say Mike Moo it’s a lie; I am alive but your line is not connecting. Bishop, is it true that you are dead? George please call my line. You called me on Monday to know how I am faring, and I told you I am okay, and you encouraged me to continue to be focused. Guy, why leaving your wife so soon? Why leaving your mom behind? You didn’t tell me you were sick, death why? Why must you take our friend from us? Theophilus Odey Blaise Oscar Mohie Willy Loco Egbaji Godwin Edmond Richy Edu Patience Eneji JohnJohn Ivara IJ have you guys heard that Bishop is dead? What a great loss to Old boys of Government Technical College Ogoja, what a loss to Nigerian Army!
Rest in peace my gallant officer.”

Nigerian soldier dies just two months after wedding

Nigerian soldier dies just two months after wedding

 

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