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Must Read for every lady – Should I change for my Husband ?

Be You, no compromises!

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“When I marry, I’ll ask my husband if it’s okay for me to continue acting movies.”

“I’ll ask my fiance if he will allow me continue using social media after we marry.”

“I’ll take permission from my husband to apply for Masters.”

“I’ll keep/continue my job if my husband allows me to.”

When I hear women talk like this, I wonder why they feel like they need permission to live. It irks me because you don’t!. You are an adult for crying out loud so why do you need someone’s approval to make your choices ?

Now, this is not the same as asking someone what they think about a job offer you got or something you’re not sure about. You could share ideas or ask for someone’s opinion, at the end of the day, you’ll do what you believe is best. But giving up control of every area of your life is like agreeing to be someone’s dog or robot and that’s not wise.

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Dear Woman,
You don’t need permission to live your life or soar! You should decide what you want to be and do with your life and let whoever wants to love you embrace that part of you too. If the person you’re with met you as a workaholic and doesn’t like it, he can leave. Another man would find your work ethics attractive.

Must Read for every lady - Should I change for my Husband ?

Uchechi Uchenyi

If the person you’re with thinks you’re too ambitious, he can go find himself a girl whose only life dream is to be wife, mother, cook and cleaner and they will be happy.

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If you’re a person actively involved in church and ministry and the guy isn’t too happy about it, he can leave and find him a girl who does Sunday Sunday medicine. Stop trying to panel beat yourself into different shapes just so the men in your life would be happier. Chances are that they will always find something to complain about and you will keep changing things to keep them happy.

It’s not fair to you because gradually you’ll no longer be yourself but a suppressed puppy or female version of them.

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The truth is, Most times, these kind of people don’t love you. They take you for granted, toy with your feelings and one day, you’ll get tired of living life like someone else.

Be You!

You were not born or created to be controlled by another. That’s why you have a brain and not maggots or brake fluid in that beautiful big head of yours.

Be You un-apologetically!

Be You, no compromises!

If they love you and are comfortable with you, they’ll stay. If not, they will go and another will come. If no one does, still BE YOU and ROCK IT. You Alone is better than a married clone/robot!

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Will Simi and Adekunle Gold’s marriage be forever ? – Yes, read why

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Simi and Adekunle Gold, two Nigerians favorite artist tied the knot few days ago and subsequently released a music video to mark the “Promise” the have made for each other. We already answered the question “if the marriage between Simisola aka Simi and Adekunle Gold will last forever” and our answer is “Yes”.

Here is why. First let’s take a look at their public profile.

Adekunle Gold – (Omoba Adekunle Kosoko)

Why Simi and Adekunle Gold will last forever

Adekunle Gold

Omoba Adekunle Kosoko was born on January 28, 1987 into the Kosoko royal family of Lagos State, Nigeria.
Adekunle developed interest in music while listening to songs by King Sunny Ade and Ebenezer Obey. He became a member of his church’s junior choir during his teenage years, and went on to write his first song at the age of 15.

Simi – (Simisola Bolatito Ogunleye)

Why Simi and Adekunle Gold will last forever

Simi

Simi was born on April 19, 1988 in Ojuelegba, a suburb of Surulere, as the last of 4 children.
Simi grew up dancing and singing as a member of her local church’s choir until she wrote her first song at the age of 10. She attended Stars International College, a secondary school in Ikorodu, Lagos State. She is an alumna of Covenant University where she studied Mass Communication.

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Will Simi and Adekunle Gold's marriage be forever ? - Yes, read why

Why Simi and Adekunle Gold will last forever

Family Background

Simi and Adekunle Gold are coming from a christian family background and they uphold a high level of moral value. That is why you don’t see them feature unnecessary sultry content in their videos or songs which most artist do to attract audience. Simi and Gold stick to passing message to their audience and not only satisfying the visuals. Original and meaningful concepts emerge from their songs making their music evergreen.

Career

It is easier for couples who are into the same line of work to understand each other work’s demands. Both artist will grow each other directly or indirectly, adding more cement to the marriage. Its hard to come in between a couple who do the same business. Already, “Promise” a new music video which marks their marriage is making waves and more is yet to come, Nigerians believe.

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Simi has always been a good lover

Following Simi, an afro-pop artist is a collections of love songs, “Tiff” “Remind Me” etc. She constanly remins her listerners that she can fall for you if only you can steal her heart. Adekunle Gold has put a ring on her finger and already its stuck in her finger. A new video release by the afro-couple title “Promise” shows a strong connection between both singers.

Adekunle Gold has always wanted to marry

Humble Adekunle Gold in his very popular song “Pick Up” reminds Nigerians that one day a Saturday will be for him. “Orente” is another show of his love to a woman whom he can call his wife.

Their marriage is not a public marriage

Right from day one, when Simi is asked concerning her relationship with anyone during an interview, she drops a silence. She respects people’s opinions and acknowledges the fact that it has some effect in one’s life. Therefore she chose to keep her relationship with anybody secret, until she ties the knot which she did few days ago. Unsurprisingly, Adekunle Gold agreed to keep it that way too.

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Simi is private with her personal relationships despite public opinions on her possible cling with Falz the bahd guy. When asked during an interview with Koko Magazine,  “What is the real story behind your relationship with Flaz and Adekunle Gold ?“.

She said,
You know they are great artistes that I have worked with, maybe I done more work with Falz, people think something going on, but there is nothing going on between me and Falz“.

Simi and Adekunle Gold had their wedding on a rather low-key, inviting 300 guests, no public noise, nothing. Why Simi and Adekunle Gold will last forever

 

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Talk, Falz’s music video explained

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Falz the bahd guy’s new music video of his song titled “Talk” has definitely had a lot of Nigerians talking as the controversial rapper adds yet another controversial topic to screen of important concerns of the country.

We understand the video in full after going through the motions and controversial scenes filled with bring you a non-debatable explanation to the hidden meanings behind “Talk” by Falz.

The video starts with a young boy setting up his video game, SEGA.

Hidden Meanings behind Talk, Falz's music video explained

Hidden Meanings behind Talk, Falz’s music video explained

He has to choose between “Save Nigeria,” “Relocate to Yankee,” and “Join Gang”. He picks save nigeria and the story progresses.

Hidden Meanings behind Talk, Falz's music video explained

Hidden Meanings behind Talk, Falz’s music video explained

Talk highlights the Muslim rights concern MURIC’s earlier attack on falz to take down the video of “This is Nigeria ” because of the girls dancing shaku shaku on a hijab which falz responded they should meet him in court. Apparently, after all the “Shout”, MURIC never met him in court or took the case any higher considering they had no reason to in the first place. It shows Falz dressed as a lawyer (which he is) and the said hijabi girls that caused the stir in the video of “This is nigeria”, sighting how unapologetic Falz is about the video and don’t we love him for that?.

Talk, Falz's music video explained

Talk, Falz’s music video explained

Another highlight of the “Talk” video is a man walking into a room with the sign post of “London” as falz sings “4 years tenor, 3 years holiday “. This is obviously a jab at the president who has spent most of his time traveling to London for medical reasons and leaving the country he claims so hard to be trying to fix which makes us all wonder.

Hidden Meanings behind Talk, Falz's music video explained

Hidden Meanings behind Talk, Falz’s music video explained

It later shows the little boy, who is at the start of the video and seems to be controlling falz as a character, try picking between three parties, CPA, which carries the logo of the known APC, the DPD, carrying the logo of the PDP and also an unknown party which he selects. This leads him to another slide to pick between a broom, an umbrella and mace. He picks the mace. then it cuts to two senators with an umbrella and a broom fighting with falz landing in the middle, with the mace, throwing each senator aside, insinuating that the government is more than the parties as the mace is a symbol of authority.

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He also highlighted the utter disorganization of senators during elections and how old men still want to reign as apparently, they aren’t tired and perhaps which to die on such seats?. Now let’s not forget the part of government officials and people in power finding it hard to pay salaries and as at 2019, corpers still receive 19,800 naira as an allowance.

Talk, Falz's music video explained

Talk, Falz’s music video explained

Well, he didn’t leave out a pastor who own three private jet but have poor members. General overseer of Living faith tabernacle Church aka Winners chapel owns about three private jet.

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He also highlights the way “commomers” are burned alive for stealing but politicians are praised.

Talk, Falz's music video explained

Talk, Falz’s music video explained

The poor security of the country, the fact youths have no jobs. The last verse goes.
” We dey suffer
We dey smile
We dey fear to talk
My people no get job
My people no get work
These days we no know if authority dey for office
Because the yawa wey we see no be the security wey you promise
And the cup e don full, we don tire for all the rubbish
All the punishment
Na me talk am oh”
The video ends with the announcement of his album being released on the 15th of January. Aren’t we all looking forward to it?

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Simple Steps on How to Spot Broke girls

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Simple Steps on How to Spot Broke girlsPlease note that this thread doesn’t have any intention of castigating the female folks but if you fall under these category you better start amending your ways because it’s becoming annoying to me.

1) when you take them out, they bring out their phones and start snapping the food: what the hell is that? Are you that hungry? Can’t you have some decorum in public? They act as though they have never seen an exotic dish in their full life. Next thing is to start looking for nylon to wrap the meat with the excuse that they can’t finish it. .

2) They spend so much on makeup: yes with empty pockets yet they buy very expensive makeup. A friend bought a mac powder for 13k recently and was begging me to lend her money, who does that? What’s the point using iman, mac, inglot, sleek, orekelewa etc when you can’t pay your rent or eat properly. They always make mouth about using expensive makeups, don’t let that deceive you, they are broke!!!

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3) They go to expensive restaurants in group: 6 girls on a table with a bottle of sprite and a plate of steak meat in a bad ass place like hardrock cafe? When they see you placing orders and swiping your card with ease they feel intimidated. You can’t compare someone who leaves the house 5am everyday to work their ass off to you who spends your time chatting and doing nothing! A miracle can’t happen.

4) They use really expensive phones: if i’m in a ladies hangout and you trying to impress me with your phone, I look at your hair, your handbag, your nails, your vocabulary, how you comport yourself, how you eat, what you wearing…..if all these added makes 10percent outa 100 sorry you trying too hard to fit in, you are broke!

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5) They always snap pics in cars and hotel bathrooms: if I dare see multiple hotels pics as your profile picture, I delete that person instantly. A hotel bathroom isn’t an office, the front seat of cars isn’t an investment. Taking selfies in cars doesn’t make you posh, how about owning one yourself? Quit the childish act today, thank me later.

6) They use fake leg chains: sorry babe if your leg chain ain’t gold, you are broke! You can’t be sampling a gutter used leg chain you bought from balogun and be acting big. By the way has your leg chain helped you? Those 5 piercings you’v got in your ears have they connected you? Did you decorate those piercings with gold earrings or cheap metals? Better look for a way to seal them up.

7) They worship boyfriends:

8) They can sex chat, send nudes and beg for airtime online, when u insult them they will reply u with just one words forming dope girl meanwhile inside their hearts you have killed them like boko haram bomb they will spend the whole day thinking about their life because of what you said.

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9) They are very lazy and always wants to date a yahoo boy as if yahoo boy does not hustle for the money, If you know how had it is to get paid then you will know no work is harder than yahoo if it’s easy boys for no dey do plus.

10) They always come to Facebook to celebrate their parents for no reason. they will post things like: he is the best dad, she is the best mom, meanwhile at home they disrespect their parents and their parents disrespect them too because they’re not useful to the family.

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