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sex or no sex in a relationship – Abstinence is key! True

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An excerpt from my conversation with a friend on whether sex or no sex in a relationship.
Now here is my opinion:
It’s your choice to OR not to. It’s takes reason and discipline to respect another persons decision on it, no matter what you tell me I will have to respect your decision but I need to know why so that it will be my leverage.
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Abstinence is key! True
But that’s not my perspective of discuss. I am saying that I need logical and cogent reasons. For example: if you tell you want to keep it for your husband! Do you know my reply to that? We shouldn’t be dating because if you ask me if I would marry you the answer is I don’t know. So it’s going to be a waste of time being with you when I know it’s not going to lead to a bigger picture. You are already telling me we are just having fun and being in a relationship doesn’t count on important things
If you tell me because you think or being told it’s an abomination or according to the Bible it’s fornication and its sin. I am going to quiz your beliefs, I am going to try to understand your perspective of God, the Bible and doctrine. I need to know that it’s your own personal convictions and not something a self righteous individual told you. I will rattle your mind to understand your concept of the human as a being… If you can convince me beyond doubts, I will forever respect you.
If you tell me because your sexual virginity is your self worth or pride, I am so going to be pissed. Because you have succeed in being in a fix where you think you will have a good life because you are a virgin. It is not a guarantee. Self worth comes from defining your life. Does that relates to sexual virginity? Put value in your virginity because its your choice and not because it is your leverage to self worth and pride.
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If you tell me you are keeping it because sexual intercourse leads to breaking of the hymen which leads to a relation with another realm of you and your partner involved. Then I am going to tell you that is the biggest fallacy that has held waters. I can go on and on about this but I hope all this makes sense.
Like I said I will respect your decision. If I love you because of some sexual attraction then the relationship won’t hold. If I love for some other reasons and sex is just an addition Then I will consider otherwise.

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Driver lands in court after landing a heavy punch on his boss

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A 28-year-old driver, Kingsley Edem, was arraigned before the Ikeja Magistrates’ Court in Lagos state yesterday March 20th, for landing a punch on his boss in the mouth during an argument.

Driver lands in court after landing a heavy punch on his boss

According to police prosecutor, Sgt. Ishola Samuel, Edem who resides at No.14, Adetuberu St., Olowora, Lagos, is Femi Badmus’s driver.

Badmus had reported to the police that Edem punched him several times in the mouth during a disagreement in his home on No 19 Ogunbeye St., Olowora, Lagos on March 9th.

The police prosecutor said, the offence contravenes the provisions of Section 173 of the revised Criminal Law of Lagos State, 2015. Section 173 which stipulates a three-year jail term for any offender if found guilty.

Magistrate A. I. Abina, admitted Edem to bail in the sum of N10,000 with one surety in like sum.

Magistrate Abina ordered that the surety must be gainfully employed and should provide proof of two years’ tax payment to the Lagos State Government.

What raged between Edem and his boss, Badmus wasn’t made known but
Magistrate Abina adjourned the case until April 8 for mention.

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Chinese father sells his baby daughter to pay off gambling debts

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A Chinese father has been arrested for selling his 1-year-old daughter for £6,800 to pay off his gambling debts.

Chinese father sells his baby daughter to pay off gambling debts

Jiang, sold the one-year-old to a couple after owing more than 60,000 Yuan (£6,798), according to reports in China.

Jiang told his wife that he was taking their daughter to stay with his mother. He flew the child more than 1,150 miles away from their home in Guiyang, Guizhou province, last November.

Wang, his wife grew concerned after his failure to return three months later but repeatedly postponed their return.

In February, 2019, she checked her husband’s phone and found shocking conversations between her husband and her daughter’s buyers.

Wang went to her husband’s mother in Zunyi city, about 87 miles away, who informed her that her son and granddaughter left her weeks ago.

She immediately contacted police and they tracked Jiang down to a hotel in Guiyang last month.

When he was caught, Jiang admitted to owing a huge gambling debt and decided to take the drastic measure after seeing online adverts for child adoption.

Chinese father sells his baby daughter to pay off gambling debts

How Jiang Planned on Selling his daughter

Jiang lied to the buyers – a couple in Zhoushan, Zhejiang province – that he was a single father who could no longer afford to care for the girl. He went further to claim that his own parents were dead so he had nowhere else to turn.

Fortunately, the child was located by the police last Friday and reunited with her mum.

Jiang has been arrested and charged with suspicion of human trafficking, according to the police.

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